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A couple of suggestions

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A lot of you who join FROG
write me and tell me that you're new to the area
and want to meet new people.
I think that's pretty much a common concern.
My advise is to be brave go to the activities.
Why is courage needed here?
Well, we've all been through it --
walking into a crowd alone.
It seems everyone knows everyone but you, doesn't it?
You fear standing out alone in a crowd.
I suggest being honest and open
by walking up to someone who may also seem to be alone,
saying your name, that you're new, etc.
If you're not new, tell them you haven't met yet and introduce yourself.
I think you'll find most people will respond to that with warmth and friendliness.
Those who don't, well, don't let that discourage you.
That person probably wouldn't be your best buddy anyway; try again.

Those of us who have already established friendships --
please respond to new comers with kindness.
Better yet, look for those who are alone
and introduce yourself.
Also, introduce them to your friends.

When I first joined RSOC years ago,
I often went to group activities by myself.
I have been fortunate to have made friends
from these group activities,
but remember very well knowing no one and it being very hard.
The older I get, the more I appreciate the smaller groups.
For me, I find it more personal and easier to meet people in smaller groups.
The weekend trips are especially a great way to meet new friends.
And there's enough of a variety of activities to spark anyone's interest, I believe.
If not, go ahead and coordinate your own activity.
FROG tries to make that as easy as possible for everyone,
new people too.